Nearly every person who picked up the phone was annoyed. ” It’s because people are turned off by “salesmen”.
Being the “seller” means you value the approval of others over your own opinion of yourself.
You worry about their judgment and you work hard to impress them.
The study authors advise “the best way for you to get close to your partner is for you to share with them and for them to share with you”. In this day and age when it comes to relationships, men have allowed women to walk all over them emotionally, mentally, and in certain extremes, physically.
After finishing answering the questions, the participants are supposed to sit and look into one another’s eyes for four minutes. Men have given up on their manhood and their own happiness for what they perceive to be the greater good of their girlfriend or wife’s happiness.
Most notably, falling in love activates the caudate nucleus, an area near the center of the brain referred to as the primitive reptilian brain or survival brain, present for thousands of years.
It’s part of the brain's reward system, associated with wanting, craving, and motivation.
It’s true that maintaining a happy, healthy relationship takes work. The secret lies in finding a relationship that makes life easier and more fulfilling for No one likes being sold to.
When I worked in real estate, I cold called people to pitch them on refinancing their mortgage.
A month later asked that we be friends and that I, like she has tried to do, should not live in the past. My ex tried to gain sympathy from me by cutting her forehead open with a pair of nail scissors after a night out and claiming she was attacked on her way home.