For example, maybe you want to seduce a guy into your bed, but the underlying reason is because you don’t really feel attractive, and you think that successfully seducing him will prove that you are.
Or maybe you want to get a particular guy to chase you to prove to yourself that you’re worthy of pursuit (because you don’t believe you are). point is, if your goal in seducing a guy is to feel better about yourself, you’re going to be at a considerable disadvantage. Because you won’t be able to be carefree in the seduction…
If you understand how a seductress thinks, views the world, and what her overall philosophy is, then you will probably automatically seduce people through your mindset alone…c ombined with the right moves, you’ll be an unstoppable force of nature. Is your goal to get out of the friend zone with a guy?
To begin, we need to establish what our goal is here. The fact that you want to seduce him as a means of getting what you want is fine (who doesn’t like to be seduced?
If this sounds radically different than how you typically feel and act with men, then that’s great news. You can be angry and still know that you’re 100% OK.
You now have the opportunity to get rid of a bunch of unhelpful, painful and ineffective habits and replace them with one simple new habit: being OK. When you can live like this, you’ll find that any bad mood or emotion flows through you rather quickly.
I don’t have trouble with guys in general, but I really want this particular guy and since there’s competition, I really want to know how to seduce a man and how to hook a man’s interest. OK, I’m going to give you a road map on how to seduce a guy, but I’m going to need to break it into a few sections and I’m going to have to provide a disclaimer before we begin.
First off, I want to make it clear that my one and only goal in this answer is to show you how to seduce a man in a way that’s actually going to work in the real world.
You won’t dream up some fantasy future that you want to come true.
You won’t obsess over what the guy is or isn’t doing. You’ll have no deluded beliefs that being with him will somehow make you happier, make you more complete, or make your life any better than it is right now. there’s no drama, no unresolved issues, no victim story, etc. even when things don’t go as planned, even when something upsetting happens, even when everything falls apart… I’m not saying you become a robot devoid of emotions.
I am not unattractive, but I don’t feel like I’m necessarily the hottest woman in the room either…
I think I can look good if I really put in the effort.
every step will feel like your entire sense of self-worth is on the line, struggling to survive.